It is really, really, really hard to listen to someone who you feel is waaaaay off base.
My 4 year old son loves LEGO. He likes the mini-figures, action heroes, chima and somewhere, somehow was introduced to Star Wars figures. Now, he wants them. As a parent, we hate saying no. Something deep inside us makes us feel bad when we can't give what our child wants. That being said, we know we must say no for many reasons such as health, education, safety etc.